Trusting too much sometimes kills you.
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this reminds me of something: “universe goes around” making you feel guilty at time’s for things that you shouldn’t – When you know somebodies wound’s yet put a knife into the wound – to me, that doesn’t appear stable and in good relationship style… When the person, has no-other choice. than to be distrusting, and retaliate for survival, to gain control, when a man deserves some level of control… not of a woman, but of himself, and some of the decisions. I’d say, that’s right, to have somebody always dominating the relationship is wrong. The reason i posted this, because i wanted “just_me’s” opinion, because today, these word’s spoke to me, and what i’m going through. And she seems to know a lot about trust. TY for reading…
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Not that I know a lot about trust, I’m just speaking based on my own experiences. I’ve trusted too much in the past and got betrayed many times. And it kills me everytime. You mentioned “When the person, has no-other choice. than to be distrusting, and retaliate for survival, to gain control, when a man deserves some level of control… not of a woman, but of himself, and some of the decisions. I’d say, that’s right,” I don’t quite understand what you exactly mean by this but I guess we always have a choice and to be distrusting no matter the reason is unacceptable.
Thanks for sharing your mind, Vincent.😊
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as in control, i meant control of some life decision’s as in where to go for dinner, household duties, what movie to watch, things that should be taken as comprise, are one-sided. do you understand, how this can be worrisome when you’re in-love with somebody… to have the idea, that you’re basically, losing control of yourself, and the person’s putting in little effort to make thing’s favourable for both members of the relationship… this is a bit off topic… i understand, but i’ve been reading some of your post’s and i’ve got the impression you’re a caring person, with good insight. and btw, i know the feeling of betrayal… this is an example. she previously, was very understanding, freedom giving, and now she’s very controlling and it feels like I’m walking on egg shells. when she’d given a false sense of security.
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my question is do you think it should be like this. do you see her becoming more giving, as in freedom.
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Oh, I’m not an expert on this kind of things, as I’ve mentioned earlier, I only speak based on my personal experiences. However, I think you should talk to her about it. You should tell her the things that make you uncomfortable in your relationship, that you seem to be controlled by her and that you don’t like it that way. Communication has always been the key to any relationships so if you don’t voice out what you feel about the situation, how would she know that you’re not comfortable with her acting that way? If you’d let her continue the way she’s acting now, the more you’d lose control of yourself, I don’t see you getting more freedom if you let her decide on everything. Because she probably thinks it’s okay with you. Talk things over with her and tell her what things make you feel being controlled by her then compromise or try to meet halfway. No matter how inlove you are to someone, I don’t think it’s right that they control you.😊
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Thanks.
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Anytime, Vincent.😊
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Very true!
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Absolutely true !!
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