But who can say what’s best? That’s why you need to grab whatever chance you have of happiness where you find it, and not worry about other people too much. My experience tells me that we get no more than two or three such chances in a life time, and if we let them go, we regret it for the rest of our lives.
Make sure, as often as possible, you are doing something you’d be happy to die doing.
Success is getting what you want, happiness is wanting what you get.
It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere.